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A registry row only ever left the registry two ways: an explicit teardown_bottle (the launcher's cleanup callback) or the same-IP supersede sweep in register(). Neither runs when the launching CLI dies hard, so the row outlives its container. That orphan is not inert. Source IPs are recycled by the backend's DHCP and by_source_ip fail-closes on ambiguity, so a leftover row at a reused address resolves no policy at all for the next bottle that lands there — and a bottle with no policy denies every host, which surfaces to the agent as "host X is not in the allowlist" for hosts that were never the problem. Add reap_absent/reconcile and call it from the macOS launch path before registering, so each launch self-heals the registry. Restores the invariant the data plane needs: at most one active row per live address, and none for a dead one. The second half matters as much as the first — when several rows claim a *live* address the newest wins and the rest are swept, otherwise a recycled address stays ambiguous, which is exactly the bricked state. The host supplies the live set because the orchestrator runs inside the infra container and cannot see the backend. A grace window exempts rows younger than it, so reconciliation cannot race a bottle still coming up, and a reconcile failure is logged rather than blocking an otherwise-fine launch. Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>