fix: remove CLI backend assumptions and add docker fallback prompt

- Remove hardcoded --backend=macos-container flag reference in
  firecracker/util.py require_firecracker() error message
- Remove --backend flag from cli.py start; backend selection now
  driven exclusively by BOT_BOTTLE_BACKEND env var or auto-selection
- Skip unavailable backends in cli.py cleanup (fixes crash on Linux
  when macos-container.prepare_cleanup calls require_container())
- Add two-tier auto-selection: VM backend first (macos-container on
  macOS, firecracker on Linux+KVM); fall back to docker with a
  security warning and interactive i/d/q prompt; exit if docker
  also unavailable and print VM install instructions

Closes #344

bot_bottle/backend/firecracker/util.py

@@ -88,7 +88,7 @@ def require_firecracker() -> None:
     booting a VM without it."""
     if not is_linux():
         die("firecracker backend is only supported on Linux (KVM). "
-            "On macOS use --backend=macos-container.")
+            "On macOS use the macos-container backend.")
     if shutil.which("firecracker") is None:
         info("Firecracker is required but was not found on PATH.")
         info("Install: https://github.com/firecracker-microvm/firecracker/releases")