fix: remove CLI backend assumptions and add docker fallback prompt

- Remove hardcoded --backend=macos-container flag reference in
  firecracker/util.py require_firecracker() error message
- Remove --backend flag from cli.py start; backend selection now
  driven exclusively by BOT_BOTTLE_BACKEND env var or auto-selection
- Skip unavailable backends in cli.py cleanup (fixes crash on Linux
  when macos-container.prepare_cleanup calls require_container())
- Add two-tier auto-selection: VM backend first (macos-container on
  macOS, firecracker on Linux+KVM); fall back to docker with a
  security warning and interactive i/d/q prompt; exit if docker
  also unavailable and print VM install instructions

Closes #344

bot_bottle/backend/__init__.py

@@ -45,7 +45,7 @@ from typing import TYPE_CHECKING, Any, Generic, Sequence, TypeVar
 from ..agent_provider import AgentProvisionPlan, get_provider, build_agent_provision_plan
 from ..egress import EgressPlan
 from ..git_gate import GitGatePlan
-from ..log import die, info
+from ..log import die, info, warn
 from ..manifest import Manifest, ManifestIndex
 from ..supervise import SupervisePlan
 from ..util import expand_tilde
@@ -652,15 +652,15 @@ def get_bottle_backend(
     """Resolve the bottle backend.
 
     `name` precedence:
-      1. explicit arg (CLI `--backend=<name>` passes through here)
+      1. explicit arg (e.g. resume passes the recorded backend name)
       2. BOT_BOTTLE_BACKEND env var
-      3. `macos-container` on compatible macOS hosts
-      4. `firecracker` on KVM-capable Linux hosts
-      5. default `docker`
+      3. auto-selection: VM backend first, docker fallback with prompt
 
     Dies with a pointer at the known backends if the chosen name
     isn't implemented."""
-    resolved = name or os.environ.get("BOT_BOTTLE_BACKEND") or _default_backend_name()
+    resolved = name or os.environ.get("BOT_BOTTLE_BACKEND")
+    if resolved is None:
+        resolved = _auto_select_backend()
     backends = _get_backends()
     if resolved not in backends:
         known = ", ".join(sorted(backends))
@@ -668,7 +668,42 @@ def get_bottle_backend(
     return backends[resolved]
 
 
-def _default_backend_name() -> str:
+def _read_tty_line() -> str:
+    """Read a line from /dev/tty, falling back to stdin."""
+    try:
+        with open("/dev/tty", "r", encoding="utf-8") as tty:
+            return tty.readline().rstrip("\n")
+    except OSError:
+        return sys.stdin.readline().rstrip("\n")
+
+
+def _platform_vm_suggestion() -> str:
+    """Platform-appropriate VM backend name for install suggestions."""
+    return "macos-container" if sys.platform == "darwin" else "firecracker"
+
+
+def _print_vm_install_instructions() -> None:
+    """Print platform-appropriate VM backend install instructions to stderr."""
+    vm = _platform_vm_suggestion()
+    if vm == "macos-container":
+        info("Install Apple Container: https://github.com/apple/container/releases")
+        info("Then start the service:  container system start")
+    else:
+        info("Install Firecracker: https://github.com/firecracker-microvm/firecracker/releases")
+        info("Configure the host:  ./cli.py backend setup")
+
+
+def _auto_select_backend() -> str:
+    """Tier-1 / tier-2 backend auto-selection.
+
+    Tier 1: VM backend — macos-container on macOS when Apple Container is
+    installed; firecracker on KVM-capable Linux even before the binary is
+    present (its preflight prints an install pointer).
+
+    Tier 2: docker, with a security warning and an interactive prompt.
+    When docker is also absent, prints VM install instructions and exits.
+    """
+    # --- Tier 1: VM backend -----------------------------------------
     if has_backend("macos-container"):
         return "macos-container"
     # A KVM-capable Linux host defaults to firecracker even when the
@@ -678,7 +713,32 @@ def _default_backend_name() -> str:
     from .firecracker import FirecrackerBottleBackend
     if FirecrackerBottleBackend.is_host_capable():
         return "firecracker"
-    return "docker"
+
+    # --- Tier 2: docker fallback ------------------------------------
+    if not has_backend("docker"):
+        info("No backend available on this host.")
+        _print_vm_install_instructions()
+        die("no backend available; install a VM backend and re-run")
+
+    vm = _platform_vm_suggestion()
+    warn(
+        "docker is less secure than VM backends — "
+        "containers share the host kernel."
+    )
+    sys.stderr.write(
+        f"bot-bottle: For better isolation, install the {vm!r} backend.\n"
+        f"  [i] show {vm} install instructions and exit\n"
+        "  [d] use docker anyway\n"
+        "  [q] quit\n"
+        "bot-bottle: choice [i/d/q]: "
+    )
+    sys.stderr.flush()
+    reply = _read_tty_line().strip().lower()
+    if reply == "d":
+        return "docker"
+    if reply == "i":
+        _print_vm_install_instructions()
+    die("not proceeding with docker; install a VM backend or set BOT_BOTTLE_BACKEND=docker")
 
 
 def known_backend_names() -> tuple[str, ...]:

bot_bottle/backend/firecracker/util.py

@@ -88,7 +88,7 @@ def require_firecracker() -> None:
     booting a VM without it."""
     if not is_linux():
         die("firecracker backend is only supported on Linux (KVM). "
-            "On macOS use --backend=macos-container.")
+            "On macOS use the macos-container backend.")
     if shutil.which("firecracker") is None:
         info("Firecracker is required but was not found on PATH.")
         info("Install: https://github.com/firecracker-microvm/firecracker/releases")

bot_bottle/cli/cleanup.py

@@ -21,16 +21,20 @@ from __future__ import annotations
 
 import sys
 
-from ..backend import get_bottle_backend, known_backend_names
+from ..backend import get_bottle_backend, has_backend, known_backend_names
 from ..log import info
 from ._common import read_tty_line
 
 
 def cmd_cleanup(_argv: list[str]) -> int:
     # Order: stable backend iteration so the y/N output is
-    # deterministic across runs.
+    # deterministic across runs. Skip backends whose runtime
+    # isn't available on this host so e.g. macos-container
+    # doesn't error on Linux.
     plans = [
-        (name, get_bottle_backend(name)) for name in known_backend_names()
+        (name, get_bottle_backend(name))
+        for name in known_backend_names()
+        if has_backend(name)
     ]
     prepared = [(name, b, b.prepare_cleanup()) for name, b in plans]
 

bot_bottle/cli/start.py

@@ -27,7 +27,6 @@ from ..backend import (
     BottleSpec,
     enumerate_active_agents,
     get_bottle_backend,
-    known_backend_names,
 )
 from ..backend.docker import util as docker_mod
 from ..backend.docker.bottle_plan import DockerBottlePlan
@@ -57,15 +56,6 @@ def cmd_start(argv: list[str]) -> int:
             "into a cached layer."
         ),
     )
-    parser.add_argument(
-        "--backend",
-        choices=known_backend_names(),
-        default=None,
-        help=(
-            "backend to launch the bottle on (default: $BOT_BOTTLE_BACKEND "
-            "or host auto-selection). Overrides the env var when set."
-        ),
-    )
     parser.add_argument(
         "--headless",
         action="store_true",
@@ -115,11 +105,10 @@ def cmd_start(argv: list[str]) -> int:
         os.environ["BOT_BOTTLE_NO_CACHE"] = "1"
 
     manifest = ManifestIndex.resolve(USER_CWD)
-    backend_name: str | None = args.backend
 
     if args.headless:
         return _start_headless(
-            manifest, args, dry_run=dry_run, backend_name=backend_name
+            manifest, args, dry_run=dry_run
         )
 
     agent_name: str | None = args.name
@@ -170,7 +159,6 @@ def cmd_start(argv: list[str]) -> int:
     return _launch_bottle(
         spec,
         dry_run=dry_run,
-        backend_name=backend_name,
     )
 
 
@@ -182,7 +170,6 @@ def _start_headless(
     args: argparse.Namespace,
     *,
     dry_run: bool,
-    backend_name: str | None,
 ) -> int:
     """Non-interactive launch path for orchestrators / CI / webhooks.
 
@@ -230,7 +217,6 @@ def _start_headless(
     return _launch_bottle(
         spec,
         dry_run=dry_run,
-        backend_name=backend_name,
         assume_yes=True,
         headless_prompt_text=prompt,
     )