feat(backend): remove smolmachines; firecracker is the Linux default

Delete the smolmachines backend (the whole bot_bottle/backend/smolmachines
package and its tests). It had fatal Linux issues (TSI networking under
sustained use, exec-channel contention, no SIGWINCH) and is superseded by
the Firecracker backend (issue #342).

Backend selection now:
- default is macos-container on macOS, firecracker on KVM-capable Linux
  hosts, and docker as the last resort (was smolmachines).
- firecracker is selected on a KVM host even when the `firecracker`
  binary isn't installed, so start routes through its preflight and
  prints an install pointer (same UX as require_container), instead of
  silently falling back. Split is_host_capable() (Linux + KVM) out of
  is_available() (adds the binary check) to drive this.

Retarget the cross-backend tests (parity, print-parity, prepare,
workspace, freezer, selection) from smolmachines to firecracker rather
than dropping the coverage. Remove docker.util.image_id/save, which only
smolmachines used. Update README/AGENTS/example bottles and stale
comments; historical docs/prds are left as a point-in-time record.

BREAKING: BOT_BOTTLE_BACKEND=smolmachines now errors as unknown.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01WBMWTEtQdJ4W5UrWuLHCck

Dockerfile.sidecars

@@ -24,7 +24,7 @@
 # Exposed ports inside the container:
 #   9099  egress (mitmproxy, agent-facing HTTPS proxy)
 #   9418  git-gate (git-daemon)
-#   9420  git-gate smart HTTP (smolmachines agent-facing transport)
+#   9420  git-gate smart HTTP (VM-backend agent-facing transport)
 #   9100  supervise (MCP HTTP)
 
 # Stage 1: gitleaks binary. The upstream gitleaks image is alpine