feat(cli): cross-backend list active + --backend flag + dashboard picker (issue #77)

CLI and dashboard now share one cross-backend abstraction for
listing + launching bottles, so adding a backend (docker /
smolmachines) lights up in both places without separate wiring.

Backend abstraction:
- New `ActiveBottle` dataclass (`backend_name`, `slug`,
  `agent_name`, `started_at`, `services`) replaces the
  docker-specific `ActiveAgent`. Same field surface for the
  existing dashboard consumers; `ActiveAgent` becomes a typed
  alias for source-compat.
- New `BottleBackend.enumerate_active() -> Sequence[ActiveBottle]`
  replaces the old `list_active() -> None` (which printed and
  returned nothing). Docker implements it via the existing
  compose query; smolmachines implements it via `smolvm machine
  ls --json` cross-referenced with each bundle container's
  `CLAUDE_BOTTLE_SIDECAR_DAEMONS` env (`backend/smolmachines/
  enumerate.py`).
- New `enumerate_active_bottles()` and `known_backend_names()`
  module-level helpers fold every backend into one call.
- `get_bottle_backend(name=None)` takes an optional explicit
  name (precedence: arg > $CLAUDE_BOTTLE_BACKEND > "docker").

CLI:
- `./cli.py list active` enumerates every backend, prints
  tab-separated `<backend>\t<slug>\t<agent>\t<services>`. The
  smolmachines bottle the user was looking for now shows up.
- `./cli.py start` grows `--backend=<docker|smolmachines>`
  (choices pulled live from `known_backend_names()`). Threaded
  through `prepare_with_preflight(backend_name=...)` so the
  resume path picks up the flag too.

Dashboard:
- Active agents pane lists both backends (the row formatter now
  prefixes `[docker]` / `[smolmachines]`).
- New-agent flow inserts a backend picker modal between agent
  pick and preflight (`_backend_picker_modal`). Short-circuits
  when only one backend is registered.
- `discover_active_agents()` collapses to
  `enumerate_active_bottles()`; `_parse_services_by_project` and
  `_query_services_by_project` move to
  `backend/docker/cleanup.py` where the docker enumerator owns
  them.

Tests: parser + enumerate-active tests relocated to
`test_docker_enumerate_active.py`. New
`test_backend_selection.py` covers `get_bottle_backend`,
`known_backend_names`, `enumerate_active_bottles`. New
`test_cli_start_backend_flag.py` covers `--backend`'s argparse
shape + the explicit-over-env precedence.

605 unit tests pass.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

claude_bottle/backend/docker/backend.py

@@ -14,9 +14,9 @@ from __future__ import annotations
 
 from contextlib import contextmanager
 from pathlib import Path
-from typing import Generator
+from typing import Generator, Sequence
 
-from .. import BottleBackend, BottleSpec
+from .. import ActiveBottle, BottleBackend, BottleSpec
 from . import cleanup as _cleanup
 from . import launch as _launch
 from . import prepare as _prepare
@@ -65,5 +65,5 @@ class DockerBottleBackend(BottleBackend["DockerBottlePlan", "DockerBottleCleanup
     def cleanup(self, plan: DockerBottleCleanupPlan) -> None:
         _cleanup.cleanup(plan)
 
-    def list_active(self) -> None:
-        _cleanup.list_active()
+    def enumerate_active(self) -> Sequence[ActiveBottle]:
+        return _cleanup.enumerate_active()