feat(orchestrator): list_live broker op + reconcile via broker (#468)

Chunk 3 of the host-control-server stack: grow the broker op vocabulary
(PRD gap 3), starting with `list_live`, and invert `reconcile` onto it.

- broker: split the closed op vocabulary into mutation (`launch`/`teardown`,
  carry a bottle id + static flags) and query (`list_live`, carries nothing
  but its op name) kinds. `verify_request` now enforces a **strict schema**
  (open question 1, resolved yes): unknown claim keys are rejected, a mutation
  must name its bottle, and a query that smuggles any id/flag is refused.
- broker verb: `LaunchBroker.list_live` / `SubmitBroker.list_live` return the
  backend's live source IPs; a backend enumeration failure is converted to the
  single `BrokerUnavailableError` "live set unknown" signal. `DockerBroker`
  enumerates its labelled containers; `StubBroker` derives from launches (or a
  test override).
- host controller: `POST /broker/live` verifies a signed `list_live` token and
  returns `{source_ips}`; `BrokerClient.list_live` is its drop-in client.
- reconcile: `OrchestratorCore.reconcile()` drops the `live_source_ips`
  parameter and pulls the live set from the broker itself — the tell that the
  orchestrator couldn't see the backend goes away. **Fail-safe**: if the broker
  can't return an authoritative set the sweep is skipped, never run against an
  empty/partial set (which would reap healthy rows). The `/reconcile` HTTP
  contract + `OrchestratorClient.reconcile` become a bare trigger.

The macOS launcher's Apple-container enumeration stays for now; it becomes the
host controller's `list_live` when launch itself moves behind the broker (the
pulled-forward chunk 5, next in the stack).

Tests + pyright clean; pylint 10.0 on broker.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

bot_bottle/orchestrator/server.py

@@ -18,8 +18,8 @@ vsock / unix-socket portability caveats):
                                          body: {"env_var_secret"}
     DELETE /bottles/<bottle_id>        -> 200 {"torn_down": true} | 404  (teardown)
     POST   /reconcile                 -> 200 {"reaped": [bottle_id, ...]}
-                                         body: {"live_source_ips": [...],
-                                                ["grace_seconds"]}
+                                         body: {["grace_seconds"]}  (live set is
+                                         pulled from the host controller, not sent)
     POST   /attribute                 -> 200 {"bottle_id"} | 403
     POST   /resolve                   -> 200 {"bottle_id","policy"} | 403
                                          body: {"source_ip","identity_token"}
@@ -206,25 +206,22 @@ def dispatch(  # pylint: disable=too-many-return-statements,too-many-branches
         return 404, {"error": "no such bottle"}
 
     if method == "POST" and route == "/reconcile":
-        # Host-driven self-heal: the caller enumerates its live bottles (only
-        # the host can see the backend) and the orchestrator drops rows for
-        # every other active bottle. Trusted-caller only — an agent that could
-        # reach this would be able to unregister its neighbours.
+        # Host-driven self-heal trigger: the orchestrator pulls its own live set
+        # from the host controller (`list_live`) and drops rows for every other
+        # active bottle — the caller no longer supplies the live IPs. Trusted-
+        # caller only: an agent that could reach this would trigger a sweep that
+        # unregisters its neighbours. Body is optional (just `grace_seconds`).
         try:
             data = _parse_json_object(body)
         except ValueError as e:
             return 400, {"error": f"invalid JSON: {e}"}
-        raw_ips = data.get("live_source_ips")
-        if not isinstance(raw_ips, list):
-            return 400, {"error": "live_source_ips (list of strings) is required"}
-        live = [ip for ip in raw_ips if isinstance(ip, str) and ip]
         grace = data.get("grace_seconds")
         kwargs = (
             {"grace_seconds": float(grace)}
             if isinstance(grace, (int, float)) and not isinstance(grace, bool)
             else {}
         )
-        return 200, {"reaped": orch.reconcile(live, **kwargs)}
+        return 200, {"reaped": orch.reconcile(**kwargs)}
 
     if method == "POST" and route == "/attribute":
         try: