fix(macos): name the gateway instead of addressing it, so bottles survive it moving

The shared gateway's address is DHCP-assigned and changes whenever the infra
container is recreated — a source-hash bump, an image upgrade, a crash. Every
agent-facing URL embedded that address, and the proxy URL reaches the agent
as process environment at `container exec` time. A running process's environ
cannot be rewritten from outside, so a moved gateway stranded every running
bottle permanently: not degraded, unreachable, until relaunched and its agent
session thrown away.

Give the agent a stable name instead. `GATEWAY_HOSTNAME` replaces the address
in the egress proxy URL, NO_PROXY, git-http, and supervise URLs, and resolves
through the bottle's own /etc/hosts. Unlike environ that is a file, so it can
be rewritten inside a container that is already running — which is the whole
point: a gateway that returns at a new address is picked up by live bottles.

Launch writes the entry before anything execs (every agent URL names the
gateway, so it must resolve for the first connection), and re-points every
running bottle once the gateway is up, so one stranded by an earlier restart
re-attaches instead of needing a relaunch.

The write needs root and the agent runs as `node`: the host can repoint a
bottle's gateway name, the agent cannot repoint its own. Keep that asymmetry.

Apple Container 1.0 has no container-name DNS on a user network and
`container run` has no --add-host, so the entry is written by exec after
start rather than declared at run.

Does not address the other half of #443: per-bottle egress auth tokens are
held in memory by the orchestrator and are still lost across a restart, so a
re-attached bottle resolves its policy but not its injected credentials.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

tests/unit/test_macos_container_launch_wiring.py

@@ -17,6 +17,7 @@ from unittest.mock import patch
 from bot_bottle.backend.macos_container.bottle import MacosContainerBottle
 from bot_bottle.backend.macos_container.bottle_plan import MacosContainerBottlePlan
 from bot_bottle.backend.macos_container.consolidated_launch import GatewayEndpoint
+from bot_bottle.backend.macos_container.gateway_hosts import GATEWAY_HOSTNAME
 from bot_bottle.backend.macos_container.launch import (
     _agent_run_argv,
     _identity_proxy_env,
@@ -128,7 +129,13 @@ class TestAgentRunArgv(unittest.TestCase):
         """git-http + supervise live on the gateway and must be reached
         directly, not through its own egress proxy."""
         entry = next(a for a in self.argv if a.startswith("NO_PROXY="))
-        self.assertIn("192.168.128.3", entry)
+        self.assertIn(GATEWAY_HOSTNAME, entry)
+
+    def test_no_proxy_names_the_gateway_and_never_addresses_it(self) -> None:
+        """NO_PROXY is baked into the run-time env, so an address here is as
+        unfixable as the proxy URL if the gateway moves."""
+        entry = next(a for a in self.argv if a.startswith("NO_PROXY="))
+        self.assertNotIn("192.168.128.3", entry)
 
     def test_forwarded_secrets_stay_off_argv(self) -> None:
         """Bare name → inherited from the run process env, so the value never
@@ -146,7 +153,7 @@ class TestIdentityTokenDelivery(unittest.TestCase):
     def test_exec_env_carries_the_token_as_proxy_credentials(self) -> None:
         env = _identity_proxy_env(_endpoint(), "s3cret")
         self.assertEqual(
-            "http://bottle:s3cret@192.168.128.3:9099", env["HTTP_PROXY"],
+            f"http://bottle:s3cret@{GATEWAY_HOSTNAME}:9099", env["HTTP_PROXY"],
         )
         self.assertEqual(env["HTTP_PROXY"], env["https_proxy"])
 
@@ -214,7 +221,7 @@ class TestPlanIdentityToken(unittest.TestCase):
         self.assertIn("HTTP_PROXY", argv)
         self.assertNotIn("s3cret", " ".join(argv))
         self.assertEqual(
-            "http://bottle:s3cret@192.168.128.3:9099", kwargs["env"]["HTTP_PROXY"],
+            f"http://bottle:s3cret@{GATEWAY_HOSTNAME}:9099", kwargs["env"]["HTTP_PROXY"],
         )